Why Men Hide Their Feelings: REASON #4

Posted by James Browning on June 8, 2013
Posted in: Appropriate Behavior, Feelings, relationships. Tagged: , , .

métis 72HE MUST FEEL SAFE: What will get a man over the speed bumps and into the home stretch? He has to trust you. He has to know that all that fear and confusion and uncertainty will land him in a SAFE place. Everyone wants to feel safe, right? You can help him feel safe by giving him every reason to trust you. Give him every reason to feel comfortable with you. Listen to him talk. Share parts of your life with him. Offer a listening ear when he needs it. Share your thoughts and feelings – within reason, of course. The closer you get, the more comfortable he will feel. The more comfortable he is, the safer he will feel. Soon he will be sharing everything he feels with you. That fear will gradually fade away. http://relationshipabode.wordpress.com/2011/12/24/why-men-hide-their-feelings/

Don’t ever play
with someone’s feelings,
you could win the game
but you could lose
that person forever.
Frank Ocean