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The Little Boy Who’s Waiting

Posted by James Browning on September 6, 2012
Posted in: Appropriate Behavior, Childhood, Parental Abuse. Tagged: Children, growing up, seeing myself clearly.

There are little eyes upon you, and they’re watching night and day;
There are little ears that quickly take in every word you say;
There are little hands all eager to do everything you do,
And a little boy that’s dreaming of the day he’ll be like you.

Oh, it sometimes makes me shudder when I hear my boy repeat
Some careless phrase I’ve uttered in the language of the street;
And it sets my heart to grieving when some little fault I see
And I know beyond all doubting that he picked it up from me.

There’s a wide-eyed little fellow who believes you’re always right,
And his ears are always open and he watches day and night;
You are setting an example every day in all you do
For the little boy who’s waiting to grow up to be like you.
Taken from “His Example” by Edgar A. Guest

Each day of our lives we make deposits
in the memory banks of our children.
 Charles R. Swindoll

 

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