He doesn’t know why he is the way he is, and he can’t figure out why he keeps committing the same mistakes over and over again all the while expecting different results. He runs from woman to woman thinking that he will find balm for his wounded spirit. He doesn’t know he’s an image, and he’s totally unaware how his thoughts, experiences and images have shaped what he is today… One unhealthy characteristic of a codependent is that they tend to find themselves attracted to needy people and needy people are attracted to them. Playing the role of a caretaker and trying to fix everyone else’s problems was a codependent characteristic I myself had to deal with. It ruined every relationship I had with women, and it kept me in a perpetual cycle of stupidity. Codependent people are classic image-makers because they have never experienced truly loving relationships. Larry E. Coleman
If you didn’t see it with your own eyes
or hear it with your own ears,
don’t invent it with your small mind
and share it with your big mouth.